Compliments

Digging deep into my philosophical brain and heart, I think I tend to compliment people a lot for 2 reasons:

1) It makes them feel good.

2) It makes me feel good to see that it makes them feel good.

Quite often I find that a majority of people don't take the time nor find the need to express their gratitude. Or maybe they just have some odd un-affectionate way of expressing it. But it bugs me when people take things for granted and neglect the beauty of those around them.

IE: Parents. Often, they get so busy tending to work that they're constantly telling you what to do rather than "good job" or "I'm proud of you". Or a boss who makes you grind 40+ hours a week without a single "keep up the great work!". Or a boyfriend who has glazed the fact that you've worked out all day or styled your hair differently neglecting to say "you look gorgeous today."

Perhaps I am just venting or wasn't hugged enough as a child.

One way or the other, I think making a point to compliment someone everyday is a great way to spread the love that is needed so much more in this dark world.

Whether you are complimenting..

...a friend, "Hey! You're such a great listener, and I'm glad I have you to talk to <3"
...a child, "Thanks for cleaning the dishes!"
...a stranger, "That coat looks ravishing on you!"
... or heck..even yourself!, "You look stunning today!"

I strongly believe it's totally a day-maker.

Life would be so much beautiful if we each strive to do so much more often. *nod*

Perhaps, we all could use a little Validation in our lives.